Finally, the time is here, you had been literally waiting for. Well as we all know, welcoming a newborn baby in your life will gradually lead to a lot of new responsibilities. So as a parent, it’s important to accept and understand the changes which are yet to come in your lives. Likewise, One such change which you will notice is a change in your sex life.
Let’s understand those few problems which you might face after you give birth to your newborn baby. It’s not only important to welcome this cute little member to the family but even give the same level of importance to your partner.
Your partner needs your time and he even deserves that so being a woman, it’s very important to keep a balance to avoid unnecessary arguments and tensions. It will take a little bit of time but then ultimately you would want to have sex with your partner so it’s better to wait than to panic.
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Life changes when you have your own baby
1. Lost of Interest in sex post-baby
There might be times when you will not feel to have sex with your partner since your full concentration is on your newborn baby. It’s not even a bad thing since it’s a new journey with your own baby.
The lost romance will surely be back in your life, Don’t worry about this but for now, you will be comfortable with cuddling and nodding off ultimately.
2. Things change a little down
After giving birth to a newborn baby, there are obvious changes to a mothers body. Maybe you won’t feel like doing sex since your vagina might feel stretched out and it can lead to excessive pain as well.
It takes a little bit of time for your body to come back to the normal shape so it’s better to wait rather than going through extra pain which can lead to further problems too.
3. You may go freak for the first time after
It depends how easy your delivery is because there will be times when you will actually freak out and won’t even let your partner touch you not because you are scared of him but you can be scared of your stitched getting ripped.
It’s alright, don’t panic yourself. Moreover, it is highly advisable to have sex after a few days. Only when you are in the right mood and confidence to do so.
4. You may prefer to sleep instead of sex
The days when you are actually giving birth to a newborn baby turn out to be tiring. You might want to sleep as much as possible and there can be a possibility that sex can actually be the last thing which can even strike on your mind.
5. Short sessions can be your new friends
We all agree that sex life should be happening for a couple but since you are giving birth to a newborn baby so you need to have the patience to avoid any further problems. Why hurry about anything?
It’s better to have private good time by just spending time with your partner but not stressing about it. You need to stay calm as it’s the starting of a new yet beautiful journey.