This is an age-old tale that most of the time saas-bahu don’t really get along. If that hadn’t been the case, so many daily soaps’ scriptwriter would have remained unemployed. This is because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s messed up relationship that Indian Television is flourishing. It seldom happens that we find a great pair of saas-bahu who share mother and daughter like relationship. Pipe dream, girls, it’s a pipe dream. The point is, it is established that these two never get along, so we gave it enough pondering and we dare to think otherwise.

Well, we think it is not meant to be like this. Every relationship has hope, so does this one. It is a matter of perspective and understating. If one understands the other’s perspective, not a relationship would get ruined ever. And this is why we have come up with

8 solutions that you should apply to your problem if you want a better relationship with your mother in law or daughter-n-law.

1. Welcome your son’s life partner, not your “Bahu”

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The Indian society is obsessed with “Gharkiaanbaanshaan” and in the same light, they see a daughter-n-law. They start seeing her as somebody who represents the whole clan and laden her with responsibilities and age-old traditions. Get your facts right, she is your son’s life partner, his soul-mate. If anything she is in your household is for him, not the whole clan.

2. Don’t steal anyone’s son

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Okay, so one of the very common allegations a daughter-n-law gets is to steal the son from his mother. The answer to this is actually a question: is it even possible? You raised a son, not a puppy who could be stolen from the front yard. Also, the mother and son’s bond is always too strong to be broken or breached.

So, it is all in the head, that if your son loves his wife, he is hypnotized by his wife and forced to hate his mom. Once you get this right, that his wife is a new and current chapter in his life and he is bound to love her, you will never face any trouble again with your Bahu.

3. Let her know that you are not a rival

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All the daughter-n-laws out there, you need to get this in your system that your Saas is your husband’s mother. She is a mother, and it might be hard for her to be sharing his son with an equally important woman as she is.

So make it easy for her, let her know that you are not her rival you are her partner and only together you can make that man happy. He doesn’t marry to replace his mother with a wife. So nobody takes anybody’s place. Chill!

4. Don’t treat her like a maid

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Most of the time Indian families, mistake a daughter-n-law to be a free maid who is bound to serve everybody in the family and this service could never be reciprocated. Again, she is here for you son, her husband. Please, get your facts right.

5. Spend time together as friends not relatives

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We found out that often relationship gets tricky and heavy when a lot of things are associated with it. So, to soothe out this soring relationship, the best thing to do is to spend quality time together like friends.

Friends love to do fun stuff together, and in friendship both are equal. You will only enjoy this relationship once the burden of being someone is off your shoulder.

6. Respect has to be mutual

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Most of the time we teach our kids to respect and obey elders. There is nothing wrong in teaching this lesson, but the only thing is, it is incomplete. We need to understand this every relationship needs respect.

Every individual deserves respect. So not just respect elders, respect younger ones, equals one equally. Respect is mutual, not only daughter-n-law is bound to give respect, she deserves to get some in return.

7. No blame game

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The most ridiculous thing that a daughter-n-law and a mother-n-law do is to blame each other. If something gets wrong do not ear it to your son and put the blame on his wife. Neither should daughter in law do it. If you got a problem face it. Talk things out, not fight things out. Again, you are not rivals.

8. Allow your son to move out

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We understand Indian culture, tradition and family values. But can we deny that the world is growing faster, kids are becoming independent, growing old and being responsible? If your son and his wife want to move out, it’s nobody’s fault. It is not a partition! It is normal, it is rather natural.

Love is the best feeling ever which one can have. It is something for which we always look forward to experiencing irrespective of the kind of love or the situation. We just want to love and get loved. But not everyone is lucky enough who get to experience the true and unconditional love for which we always dream for. Throughout life, you will find yourself through varied circumstances of love where you would be experiencing one of these kinds of six loves.

You might not remember but I am pretty sure each one of you must have experienced these kinds of love when you were even not aware of what love is all about?

1. Non-Sexual Love

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This is the simplest kind of a love which you experience with your friends, family, siblings and childhood friends. In this kind of a relationship or love which has no intention to make sexual relation. It is purely a friendly relation where you set yourself free with the person you are hanging out with because you trust them. In this relation, there is no expectation and no boundaries either. Any kind of relationship begins with this kind of love.

2. Infatuation love

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Do you ever have a crush or infatuation on someone? Of course, you have! You might have gone through this kind of love when you were first infatuated to someone at first sight. Maybe in college or in the coaching, you were in. It is a beautiful experience ever if you think about them. The kind of a feeling that you get in this love feels like butterflies are jolting all over your stomach.

The saddest part is that when you feel for someone and you are not able to express your feeling with them. This kind of love could happen with your hot school teacher or actor where you just keep fantasising about them all the time.

3. One-sided love

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This is one of the saddest feelings ever when you are in truly in love with someone but the other person is not even bothered to care about you. Now, what could be more painful than having this feeling? You get nothing, just disappointment and tears when you go mad for someone completely.

4. Obsessive love

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This is a kind of love which lacks innocence. You are truly obsessed with someone you love. That person is driving you crazy. You can’t keep yourself away from thinking about them all the time. You seek for moments where you both could just get close to each other and do everything you always wanted as if nobody is watching you.

5. Unconditional love

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Not everyone gets to experience this kind of love. That true feeling of love you have for someone that makes other people feel so special and blessed. This kind of love could be seen between a husband and wife where they both just can’t imagine living apart from each other. You are really very lucky if you have someone like this who loves you unconditionally.

6. Inspirational love

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You might have met someone in your life or came across such a person who has inspired you a lot. You can’t stop thinking about that person and you aspire to be like them. This is a kind of love which is far away from any intended sexual attraction. This is the love you can have with your teacher, any famous personality or the person you like the most.

You must have seen varied kinds of relationships in your life until now. But I bet, you must have not seen the relationship I am going to talk about today who have taken their long distance relationship on to another level that we can’t even imagine. I will take you deeper through their journey, how they met and how they manage to keep up things going the way they are doing.

The couple, Gaurang and Saachi who are leading a happy life together even after when they do not stay together, which is quite a difficult task for someone who is in a relationship nowadays. Do you know the reason behind this? This is due to the lack of patience, faith and trust between them which is very important to keep the relationship go a long way together.

Well, their love story seems no less than any romantic scene of a movie.

Their love and faith towards each other is surely something for us to be looked at. They think that distance is just a word for them and they love meeting each other and travelling together. Till now, they have travelled to 8 countries and many cities in India just to spend quality time with each other as they hardly get any time to live together.

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They began their relationship long back ago, in the year 2011 when the blackberry phone was into existence. They both met each other through a common friend and fall for each other instantly.

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Gaurang mentions, “We used to chat for long 7 to 8 hours continuously on BBM”.

It was Saachi who proposed him when they were having a chilling time together in Goa dancing and drinking wines in a party together. That time was truly an unforgettable one for Gaurang, he says.

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They both are avid travellers. They keep on travelling to different cities and places together to spend quality time with each other and to share some beautiful and unforgettable moments.

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Saachi told Gaurang took her to Prague on her birthday to make it more special. Flew into Mumbai for giving me a Valentine’s Day surprise and now we are planning to celebrate our birthdays at Scotland and USA respectively this year to cherish some new and beautiful memories.

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It seems like how crazy they are. We have never come across such things in life that couples are travelling together to make love and spend time together in a completely new manner just because they are not living together and are maintaining a long distance relationship like this way.

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So, after knowing about their craziness and love for each other, I think you must be drooling in to know more about them regarding how they manage to maintain their long-distance relationship together?

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They believe that living together is not a solution to live a happier life. What matters the most is how one understands each other, keeping the distance aside as it hardly matters if you are truly in love with someone. They rely on the love, faith and support between them to go a long way and to tackle the distance between them.

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Also, being mad for travelling they love to explore new cities and countries together whenever they get time after getting free from their professional life. Wasn’t it was the coolest relationship what we just heard of? I really wish to be like them those who are struggling to maintain their long-distance relationship.