Falling in love with someone is pretty easier right? But we aren’t familiar with the intentions of a guy with whom we are cuddling since so long. It can be very disheartening when you come to know that your guy is with you just for having physical fun because you are beautiful and sexy. Well, it’s unfortunate but it’s the reality sometimes. But you can avoid this thing if you are aware of the red flags that he just wanted to have sex with you and no long term relation or commitment.
I know it’s a bit hard to realize when you try to convince yourself that he is nice and different and he’d never do that to you because he loves and cares for you so much. But sweethearts, what will you do when you find that he is using you just for lust.
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- Read on to find out more to confirm yourself whether your guy is using you or he really loves you?
Read on to find out more to confirm yourself whether your guy is using you or he really loves you?
1. He doesn’t care you anymore
Guys who just want to get laid really don’t bother to know about you. They are not at all interested in knowing about you as a person or about your likes and dislikes. So, if you notice that they are not showing their interest in you then he probably wants to get laid whenever you both meet.
2. You get a feeling like he is already taken up
It often happens that you start hearing rumours about your guy that he started dating someone or he is after some another girl. When guys want to cheat, they aren’t looking for a new wife or new girlfriend. Rather, they are looking for someone just for sex or to have fun.
3. He is not interested in spending money on you
It is quite obvious that dating is very expensive, but what does that mean when you are dating someone and he is not even bothered to buy even a drink for you when you both are out together for a movie or a normal hangout. Simply, you need to understand that he is really not interested in you anymore and he doesn’t want to invest in you.
4. He pings you during late hours only
Generally speaking, if your guy calls or texts you at night only or during late hours, he’s probably just looking out for a booty call. And, you might be wondering what he is so romantic or he must be missing you that is why he is calling you during late nights. Girls, you are mistaken if you think like that.
5. He never introduces you to his family or friends
Generally, a guy never introduces their girlfriends unless they are really in a serious relationship. Take a note that if he is keeping you out of particular events and outings with friends or family it is damn sure that he doesn’t want to see you anymore and just want to be with you for sex and nothing else.
6. He is always busy whenever you text him
Most of the couples like to talk to each other the whole day and night but what if your guy doesn’t have time for you to even reply back to your messages, it’s a sign that he must have lost his interest in your or maybe he has just started dating someone else. Always, remember guys who just want you for sex only aren’t going to spend time playing the boyfriend.