The best advice a father can give to son is on his marriage. The spouse spends life with you so having a good strong relationship with her is crucial. The son knows both the person mom and dad so the advice coming from Dad to a son on his relationship with the lady who is the most important lady in the lives of the two is worth every cent.
Marriage is an institution and if you build it with love and nurture it with care and honesty the strength that it will bestow on you will give you the courage to face any situation in life.
Here are words of wisdom from father to son on the beautiful journey of marriage:
#1. Finances are Important: The advice that father can give on finance and wife together is if the lady is just enjoying the money spent on her by you and is not concerned if you are saving and making investments or not then she is not the right one for you.
#2. For long life make sure that the finances of the house are run by your wife she will know how to spend and how much to spend and will not constantly bother you for money. But if she is not handling the finances she will keep asking you for money.
#3. Never raise the hand on your for it is not about the wounds on the body but the wounds that will be forever etched on her hearts. She will be wounded forever and living with a wounded lady will not be easy.
#4. Any lady can be a good wife and good mother to your kids but a lady who is full of love and compassion and is like a mother to your family, children and you then she is definitely the keeper.
#5. Never let your wife’s day start and end in the confinement of kitchen or the four walls of your home, rather encourage her to work with or independently in office.
#6. The father needs to tell the son no matter how much he has in his pocket, being the head of his family what actually matters is the smile on the face of his family members. This is the true earnings rather than those crisp currency notes.
#7. The most valuable advice is that if after the marriage you continue to live like a bachelor then it is for sure that you will be very soon single again. Marriage comes with responsibilities and if you take marriage in part it is for sure that it will leave you.
#8. Importantly always respect the lady in your life. It may be that she will change in her appearances and not look good as she used to do, but if you respect her for what she is and how she looks then she will make your life truly beautiful.