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8 Things You Should Do for The Betterment of ‘Saas-Bahu’ Relationship

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Things You Should Do for The Betterment of ‘Saas-Bahu’ Relationship

This is an age-old tale that most of the time saas-bahu don’t really get along. If that hadn’t been the case, so many daily soaps’ scriptwriter would have remained unemployed. This is because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s messed up relationship that Indian Television is flourishing. It seldom happens that we find a great pair of saas-bahu who share mother and daughter like relationship. Pipe dream, girls, it’s a pipe dream. The point is, it is established that these two never get along, so we gave it enough pondering and we dare to think otherwise.

Well, we think it is not meant to be like this. Every relationship has hope, so does this one. It is a matter of perspective and understating. If one understands the other’s perspective, not a relationship would get ruined ever. And this is why we have come up with

8 solutions that you should apply to your problem if you want a better relationship with your mother in law or daughter-n-law.

1. Welcome your son’s life partner, not your “Bahu”

Welcome your son’s life partner, not your “Bahu”

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The Indian society is obsessed with “Gharkiaanbaanshaan” and in the same light, they see a daughter-n-law. They start seeing her as somebody who represents the whole clan and laden her with responsibilities and age-old traditions. Get your facts right, she is your son’s life partner, his soul-mate. If anything she is in your household is for him, not the whole clan.

2. Don’t steal anyone’s son

Okay, so one of the very common allegations a daughter-n-law gets is to steal the son from his mother. The answer to this is actually a question: is it even possible? You raised a son, not a puppy who could be stolen from the front yard. Also, the mother and son’s bond is always too strong to be broken or breached.

So, it is all in the head, that if your son loves his wife, he is hypnotized by his wife and forced to hate his mom. Once you get this right, that his wife is a new and current chapter in his life and he is bound to love her, you will never face any trouble again with your Bahu.

3. Let her know that you are not a rival

All the daughter-n-laws out there, you need to get this in your system that your Saas is your husband’s mother. She is a mother, and it might be hard for her to be sharing his son with an equally important woman as she is.

So make it easy for her, let her know that you are not her rival you are her partner and only together you can make that man happy. He doesn’t marry to replace his mother with a wife. So nobody takes anybody’s place. Chill!

4. Don’t treat her like a maid

Most of the time Indian families, mistake a daughter-n-law to be a free maid who is bound to serve everybody in the family and this service could never be reciprocated. Again, she is here for you son, her husband. Please, get your facts right.

5. Spend time together as friends not relatives

Spend time together as friends not relatives

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We found out that often relationship gets tricky and heavy when a lot of things are associated with it. So, to soothe out this soring relationship, the best thing to do is to spend quality time together like friends.

Friends love to do fun stuff together, and in friendship both are equal. You will only enjoy this relationship once the burden of being someone is off your shoulder.

6. Respect has to be mutual

Respect has to be mutual

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Most of the time we teach our kids to respect and obey elders. There is nothing wrong in teaching this lesson, but the only thing is, it is incomplete. We need to understand this every relationship needs respect.

Every individual deserves respect. So not just respect elders, respect younger ones, equals one equally. Respect is mutual, not only daughter-n-law is bound to give respect, she deserves to get some in return.

7. No blame game

The most ridiculous thing that a daughter-n-law and a mother-n-law do is to blame each other. If something gets wrong do not ear it to your son and put the blame on his wife. Neither should daughter in law do it. If you got a problem face it. Talk things out, not fight things out. Again, you are not rivals.

8. Allow your son to move out

We understand Indian culture, tradition and family values. But can we deny that the world is growing faster, kids are becoming independent, growing old and being responsible? If your son and his wife want to move out, it’s nobody’s fault. It is not a partition! It is normal, it is rather natural.

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Billionaire Matchmaker Anna Bey Explains The 5 Types of Men You Should Avoid Dating

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Anna Bey is a popular YouTuber and a Billionaire matchmaker who teaches women how to date billionaires. In this article, she tells about how to date rich men and create a sophisticated impression in high society. She is a London based etiquette expert and 33 years old. Recently, she had shared one video on YouTube explaining the 5 types of men women should never date which include Old money, party playboy, Narcissists, different religion and Workaholics.

Have a look at each type and what do they actually mean and why you should maintain distance from such kind of men according to her experience. See below

1. Different Religions

 

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On number third comes, the men who belong from different religions. Anna wants to warn everyone by acknowledging the controversial nature of her opinion. She says, even she had dated men who all belonged from the different religions during the past and she is in favour of inter-religious marriages. But she says, it is important to select a partner who shares similar ethics and moral values. Anna says, the men who are less open-minded and more traditional, you need to stay away from them.

Also read: 4 Tips to Handle Insecurities in Your Relationship

2. Old Money

 

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She started by saying that you will find every type of men even in high society. It’s not that they all are the rich ad you fall for them. It doesn’t mean if they belong to high society or have lots of money then they will be good. This is not true and you should try to stay away from such kind of men. Here, by old money, she means the men who have wealth which is inherited from their ancestors and not earned by them.

3. Narcissists

 

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Next comes, the Narcissists who re power-hungry and emotionally disconnected who move in high society. She said, most of the men are Narcissists and women are at higher risk of falling for them due to their emotionally damaging and narcissists behaviour. Falling for such kinds of men will always make women suffer and everything is just one-sided. Anna warned by saying, moving in high society circles makes you likely to get mingled with such kind of people.

Also read: 6 Special Things That Men are Willing To Do If They Love You More Than Anything

 4. Workaholics

 

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Last but not least, Workaholics. Anna warned the ladies not to date someone who is a workaholic and doesn’t have time for anyone besides doing their job. She says the men who are workaholics will not take out time for you and will always give the first priority to their work and not you.

5. Party Playboys

 

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The next category is Party Playboys. Anna believes that you will not find a true partner for yourself at any nightclub or any fascinating high-end party like Cannes or Monaco Grand Prix. So, she warned by saying that don’t fall for such party going boys as they are not good at giving commitments.

Also read: 5 Reasons That will Tell You Why Most of The Men can’t Manage A Strong and Independent Women

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5 Reasons That will Tell You Why Most of The Men can’t Manage A Strong and Independent Women

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You are strong, bold and self-sufficient to live your life on your own terms and conditions. This is the reason that you don’t require someone else in your life that could help you support you because you don’t want that. These are the qualities that separate happy and independent women from an unhappy woman and this is what makes men insecure when they see a woman being so bold and mature. Being independent in your life, you know who you are and what you want in your life.

Below given are some of the top reasons that make men insecure to handle a strong and independent woman.

1. You like to do whatever you want in your life

You like to do whatever you want in your life

You feel like you are your own superhero. You love to do whatever you want in your life. You like to come and go according to you. You like to take yourself to dinner and sleep on your bed alone in the position you want. You are self-sufficient and you don’t need anyone who interferes in your life.

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2. You like to travel solo

You like to travel solo

You are independent and bold enough to travel alone. You don’t require anyone’s support or help to be with you when you are going somewhere. You know you enjoy more when you are alone as you are the best company for yourself.

3. You like to go out on a dinner date with “you” only

You like to go out on a dinner date with “you” only

If you are a self-independent woman, you don’t need any man to join you when you are going out on a dinner date. You feel perfectly happy when you are alone. You like to eat whatever you want as there is no one to stop you or watching you eating and counting your calories.

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4. You feel proud to pay your own bills

You feel proud to pay your own bills

You believe in work hard party harder. You love to eat and go out with friends. You know that you are independent and you earn good so you can pay for your own bills and that is what makes you proud and this makes a man insecure knowing that you are confident and you can pay for yourself without depending on anyone else.

5. Your goal is everything for you

Your goal is everything for you

Women, who are strong and bold, then know what their goal is. This is why they put their goal on priority above everything else. They don’t think and care about anyone white everyone sys bout her. So, these were some of the perfect reasons that make women stay happy, bold and care-free.

On the other hand, these reasons also make men insecure as they can’t manage to handle a strong and independent woman who can pay for herself, who is not afraid to go out somewhere alone or eat out on the streets. In fact, all of us must try to inhibit such qualities in ourselves to be happy and blessed.

Also read: Top 4 Indian Women Who Made It To Forbes ‘100’ List Which is Itself A Proud Moment for Us

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5 Reasons Explaining Why You Could Not Get Over Your First Love So Easily

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Why You Could Not Get Over Your First Love So Easily

If you were ever in love with someone, you would be able to understand why it is not easy to get over it. The reason behind that is that was your first-ever love and it was very special for you. You were so innocent and were truly in love with someone. No matter how hard you try to forget him/her, you will never stop missing them irrespective of where you are and with whom you are. You still remember your first hug, first cuddle, late-night talks, never-ending dates and so many things you guys did together. Find out to know more about why it is hard to forget your first love.

1. Because that was the first time when you get intimated with someone you loved the most

when you get intimated with someone you loved the most

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If you ask anyone about their first love, their first kiss or about physical intimacy. Believe me, the one whom you will be asking all this will have a priceless glow on their face and that will answer them all. This happens because that was your first time when you got very close to someone and you can’t miss that moment ever.

Also read: 9 Things You Really Need To Do After Getting Your Heart Broken

2. Because your love was pure and so innocent

Because your love was pure and so innocent

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This is one of the main reasons why you can’t forget your first love and that is your love was completely pure and innocent. Your intentions towards that person were right. This blissful feeling of pure love towards your love can never be forgotten.

3. Because of the extreme attachment, you had with that person for the first time

It is very hard to forget someone if you have developed a strong feeling towards them and that for the very first time. You start dreaming about them, you start attaching all your hopes and dreams with them which makes it difficult for you to forget them even if you want to.

Also read: 7 Things to Get Over a Breakup You Had With Someone You Loved The Most

4. Because your heart has gone through so much pain when you had your first breakup

Just like you fall so strongly in love with someone, so are the consequences when you experienced a breakup with that person. It becomes very difficult to get over it and to forget that. You start feeling like someone has broken your trust so badly that you will not be able to get in love with someone in the future. It’s so painful and that is the truth.

So, these were some of the reasons that will not let you forget someone you loved the most at first sight. But this doesn’t mean that you do not have the right to live happily after you had such a bad breakup that made your heart feel like breaking into pieces. If you are someone who has gone through their breakup with their first-ever love, try to get over it to begin a new and happy life. I know it’s a bit hard but believe me, you need to get over it so that you may be able to welcome a new life ahead of you that are waiting for you.

Also read: 6 Simple Yet Effective Ways To Reconcile with Your Ex-Boyfriend That Really Work

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