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Gaming and Relationship – What You should know

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Cell phones and tablets affect the social and emotional development of children under three years of age. With the technological advancements of recent years, there has been a profound change in society, which affects practically all areas of life. Specifically, a debate has been opened around video games, since in one way or another they influence families, the education of children, their leisure and the distribution of their time.

A video game is an electronic game where one or several people can interact through a device or platform. At first, there was only one platform: the computer, but over time the technologies have evolved, and now a video game can be played on any platform, from consoles, arcade machines, mobile phones, tablets, to even

In Favor of Video Games

In Favor Of Video Games

  • Video games improve cognitive skills of minors; they develop their inventiveness, creativity, and intellectual capacity and analysis. It helps to unscrambler words, scrabble games and puzzles can resolve your problems by relaxing your mind.
  • The frequent use of them enriches the capability of solving logic, deduction, and reasoning problems.  Video games also help in increases spatial orientation and, in addition, better results are observed in the mathematics of the adolescents who use them.
  • You can take advantage of its educational part and its playful part to stimulate children, so they are optimal tools for immersion in any type of activity.
  • Promote mental agility, decision making and the ability to resolve conflicts. In addition, they allow comparing different strategies and consequences of the decisions made.
  • Help to increase reflections, coordination, and confidence.

Against Video Games:

Against Video Games

  • Video games are detrimental to schoolwork and, in many cases; they influence school failure since there is a rejection of the school by the adolescent.
  • They are addictive and can cause evasion in the child and, even, promote irritability, anxiety and aggressive reactions by the dependence that these games generate.
  • They affect that children leave less than their rooms or that, directly, lock themselves up. They may end up losing interest in other types of activities, which implies a decomposition in their priorities, customs, and relationships.
  • They generate terrible communication with the parents and make the child get used to not giving explanations and not to express their emotions as a family.
  • They can cause a hostile environment and rises in the tone of voice at home.
  • Also, affect friendships, which may be neglected or damaged.
  • The child may suffer from daytime fatigue and drowsiness. During the day, you may not be able to face productive tasks due to lack of concentration and attention.
  • In addition, the inhibitions and the traits of unsafe personalities are accentuated, and difficulties are generated in social competence.
  • Video games create problems to abide by the rules and limits established by parents, precisely because of the immersion in the game and the addiction they generate.
  • Currently, these games are presented in the online format. Each time, parents have less information about how their children are entertained because they are no longer the ones who buy them.

Violent Video Games:

Violent Video Games

About the games in which the violent images are constant, experts explain that young people can fall into the desire to occupy the protagonist’s role, because of the morbidity that involves causing harm without pain, which can confuse them. Besides, he adds that it is entirely gratuitous violence, that over stimulates them and that, although it does not have to have a direct consequence, it influences aggressive reactions.

Teens live a stage of their life in which they dare much more and want to try all kinds of things. Also, violent video games are not typical of irritable or aggressive people but are available to everyone. You have to be careful because it is proven that violent images influence the behavior of minors, “said the experts.

The addiction to the cell phone of the parents could damage the future of the children:

The addiction to the cell phone of the parents

Everyone is suffering from a certain level of addiction to mobile phones, but few parents know the intellectual and emotional damage that addiction can cause their children, especially the little ones. According to neuroscience studies, it is during the first three years of life that the linguistic, emotional, social and motor abilities of the brain are developed more quickly.

The addiction to mobile is a problem that also affects the parents. In fact, it is estimated that one in five Spanish adults is addicted to mobile, with the consequent implications this has for their work productivity, emotional stability and interpersonal relationships.

However, what many parents overlook is that their addiction to the phone can also influence the relationship they have with their children, as well as the psychological development of the children.

According to neuroscience studies, it is during the first three years of life that the linguistic, emotional, social and motor abilities of the brain are developed more quickly.

Parents addicted to mobile, children naughtier and less communicative:

Parents addicted to mobile, children naughtier and less communicative

According to neuroscientists, the first three years of children’s lives are indispensable for the development of their emotional, linguistic, social and behavioral capacities. In this period, new neuronal connections are created that lay the foundations for the later development of many of its cognitive functions.

However, the formation of these neural networks is conditioned to a large extent by the early stimulation that the child receives from the environment, specifically from the relationship he establishes with his parents.

A relationship based on love and love in which parents are attentive to the needs of their children, in which they spend time together, and there is an open communication stimulates children’s brain development.

On the other hand, a distant relationship in which parents put their needs before those of children and in which they hardly take into account their wishes not only deteriorates the bond with their children but also affects the emotional and behavioral development of the children.

Hence gaming on mobile has both a positive and negative effect on the relationship. It is up to us how we use it.

After completing my studies and getting a decent job I wanted to do something creative. I firmly believed that there should be a hobby that helps you to earn. Thus I made my hobby of writing into my part-time profession and started to write from the last two years. My journey as a writer has enriched me.

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8 Things You Should Do for The Betterment of ‘Saas-Bahu’ Relationship

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Things You Should Do for The Betterment of ‘Saas-Bahu’ Relationship

This is an age-old tale that most of the time saas-bahu don’t really get along. If that hadn’t been the case, so many daily soaps’ scriptwriter would have remained unemployed. This is because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s messed up relationship that Indian Television is flourishing. It seldom happens that we find a great pair of saas-bahu who share mother and daughter like relationship. Pipe dream, girls, it’s a pipe dream. The point is, it is established that these two never get along, so we gave it enough pondering and we dare to think otherwise.

Well, we think it is not meant to be like this. Every relationship has hope, so does this one. It is a matter of perspective and understating. If one understands the other’s perspective, not a relationship would get ruined ever. And this is why we have come up with

8 solutions that you should apply to your problem if you want a better relationship with your mother in law or daughter-n-law.

1. Welcome your son’s life partner, not your “Bahu”

Welcome your son’s life partner, not your “Bahu”

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The Indian society is obsessed with “Gharkiaanbaanshaan” and in the same light, they see a daughter-n-law. They start seeing her as somebody who represents the whole clan and laden her with responsibilities and age-old traditions. Get your facts right, she is your son’s life partner, his soul-mate. If anything she is in your household is for him, not the whole clan.

2. Don’t steal anyone’s son

Okay, so one of the very common allegations a daughter-n-law gets is to steal the son from his mother. The answer to this is actually a question: is it even possible? You raised a son, not a puppy who could be stolen from the front yard. Also, the mother and son’s bond is always too strong to be broken or breached.

So, it is all in the head, that if your son loves his wife, he is hypnotized by his wife and forced to hate his mom. Once you get this right, that his wife is a new and current chapter in his life and he is bound to love her, you will never face any trouble again with your Bahu.

3. Let her know that you are not a rival

All the daughter-n-laws out there, you need to get this in your system that your Saas is your husband’s mother. She is a mother, and it might be hard for her to be sharing his son with an equally important woman as she is.

So make it easy for her, let her know that you are not her rival you are her partner and only together you can make that man happy. He doesn’t marry to replace his mother with a wife. So nobody takes anybody’s place. Chill!

4. Don’t treat her like a maid

Most of the time Indian families, mistake a daughter-n-law to be a free maid who is bound to serve everybody in the family and this service could never be reciprocated. Again, she is here for you son, her husband. Please, get your facts right.

5. Spend time together as friends not relatives

Spend time together as friends not relatives

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We found out that often relationship gets tricky and heavy when a lot of things are associated with it. So, to soothe out this soring relationship, the best thing to do is to spend quality time together like friends.

Friends love to do fun stuff together, and in friendship both are equal. You will only enjoy this relationship once the burden of being someone is off your shoulder.

6. Respect has to be mutual

Respect has to be mutual

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Most of the time we teach our kids to respect and obey elders. There is nothing wrong in teaching this lesson, but the only thing is, it is incomplete. We need to understand this every relationship needs respect.

Every individual deserves respect. So not just respect elders, respect younger ones, equals one equally. Respect is mutual, not only daughter-n-law is bound to give respect, she deserves to get some in return.

7. No blame game

The most ridiculous thing that a daughter-n-law and a mother-n-law do is to blame each other. If something gets wrong do not ear it to your son and put the blame on his wife. Neither should daughter in law do it. If you got a problem face it. Talk things out, not fight things out. Again, you are not rivals.

8. Allow your son to move out

We understand Indian culture, tradition and family values. But can we deny that the world is growing faster, kids are becoming independent, growing old and being responsible? If your son and his wife want to move out, it’s nobody’s fault. It is not a partition! It is normal, it is rather natural.

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5 Things Girls talk About with Their Girl Gang After Getting Drunked

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The drunken night with your girl gang is something which is priceless and immeasurable. You keep yourself free and out of all worries. During these nights you talk all about your life experiences, your ups, and downs, heartbreaks you have gone through, your sex life, pregnancy scares and lots more. The bond that you share together with your favourite bunch of gang is like the greatest support system for you.

They pretty well listen to you, understand you and try to make you relaxed when you are worried or when the things are not going well in your life. Well, this is not the end of the list that you talk with them, there are a bunch of lot more things which you talk about when you meet up with your girl gang after getting drunk.

Here are the things which girls talk about-

1. Telling their friends that they never liked their boyfriend

Telling their friends that they never liked their boyfriend

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Girls are pretty good at saying things straightforward. They do not hesitate while speaking about the boyfriend of their BFFs. They would keep telling their friends why they do not like their boyfriend and how they feel happy when you finally dumped them. They literally mean what they say.

2. Showing the utmost care and love to them

Showing the utmost care and love to them

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Drunken nights are the nights where we become care-free and also a bit emotional when it comes to best friends. After getting two pegs down, you show your love to them and how you care for them. You tell them what they mean to you and how important they are for you.

3. You discuss your fantasies with them

When you meet your girl gang, you have lots of things to chat upon. You discuss the weirdest thing you have done in your life. Not only this, but you also talk about your exes and all about your good or bad experiences with them.

4. You get philosophical about your life

During those drunken nights, apart from doing shitty talks, you also talk about your life, your plans and also about the mistakes which you have committed in your life which has changed your life completely. You literally talk about all the things which have been troubling you for since long. You feel happy after you share all your worries with them.

5. You talk about all your likes and dislikes

You talk about all your likes and dislikes

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It’s not always about boys which you talk about with your girl gang. You also talk about the other things as well like your school teacher, relatives or any school friend who might have bullied you so much. The list of the people you hate and the talk between the girl gang has no end. They could keep talking the whole night about all the things which come to their mind without giving a thought even once.

Of course, your girl gang is the best one and you feel so proud to have it.

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6 Types of Love I Bet You Must Have Experienced Once in Your Lifetime

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6 Types of Love You Must Have Experienced

Love is the best feeling ever which one can have. It is something for which we always look forward to experiencing irrespective of the kind of love or the situation. We just want to love and get loved. But not everyone is lucky enough who get to experience the true and unconditional love for which we always dream for. Throughout life, you will find yourself through varied circumstances of love where you would be experiencing one of these kinds of six loves.

You might not remember but I am pretty sure each one of you must have experienced these kinds of love when you were even not aware of what love is all about?

1. Non-Sexual Love

This is the simplest kind of a love which you experience with your friends, family, siblings and childhood friends. In this kind of a relationship or love which has no intention to make sexual relation. It is purely a friendly relation where you set yourself free with the person you are hanging out with because you trust them. In this relation, there is no expectation and no boundaries either. Any kind of relationship begins with this kind of love.

2. Infatuation love

Do you ever have a crush or infatuation on someone? Of course, you have! You might have gone through this kind of love when you were first infatuated to someone at first sight. Maybe in college or in the coaching, you were in. It is a beautiful experience ever if you think about them. The kind of a feeling that you get in this love feels like butterflies are jolting all over your stomach.

The saddest part is that when you feel for someone and you are not able to express your feeling with them. This kind of love could happen with your hot school teacher or actor where you just keep fantasising about them all the time.

3. One-sided love

This is one of the saddest feelings ever when you are in truly in love with someone but the other person is not even bothered to care about you. Now, what could be more painful than having this feeling? You get nothing, just disappointment and tears when you go mad for someone completely.

4. Obsessive love

This is a kind of love which lacks innocence. You are truly obsessed with someone you love. That person is driving you crazy. You can’t keep yourself away from thinking about them all the time. You seek for moments where you both could just get close to each other and do everything you always wanted as if nobody is watching you.

5. Unconditional love

Unconditional love

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Not everyone gets to experience this kind of love. That true feeling of love you have for someone that makes other people feel so special and blessed. This kind of love could be seen between a husband and wife where they both just can’t imagine living apart from each other. You are really very lucky if you have someone like this who loves you unconditionally.

6. Inspirational love

You might have met someone in your life or came across such a person who has inspired you a lot. You can’t stop thinking about that person and you aspire to be like them. This is a kind of love which is far away from any intended sexual attraction. This is the love you can have with your teacher, any famous personality or the person you like the most.

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