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Meaning of 7 Vows of marriage

What comes to your mind when you talk about big fat weddings in India? Maybe that royal khana, Band Baja Barat, a bunch of cocktails and of course the ‘Saat Pheras‘ how can we forget that? These pheras or vows are common in every Indian wedding without which the marriage looks incomplete. They are known as ‘Saptadi’ which are taken in front of the fire where you make promises to each other to live a happy life forever. But have you ever wondered what this Pheras means and what is their significance in Indian culture?

Let’s have a look at what each vow means in real life.

In the first Phera

तीर्थव्रतोद्यापन यज्ञकर्म मया सहैव प्रियवयं कुर्या:
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति वाक्यं प्रथमं कुमारी!।

यहां कन्या वर से कहती है कि यदि आप कभी तीर्थयात्रा को जाओ तो मुझे भी अपने संग लेकर जाना। कोई व्रत-उपवास अथवा अन्य धर्म कार्य आप करें तो आज की भांति ही मुझे अपने वाम भाग में अवश्य स्थान दें। यदि आप इसे स्वीकार करते हैं तो मैं आपके वामांग में आना स्वीकार करती हूं।

vows of Hndu marriage

The couple prays to God and asks him to bless them with the strength to live together and to respect each other no matter whatever the situation is. They also promise each other to take care of each other’s need as well.

In the second Phera

पुज्यो यथा स्वौ पितरौ ममापि तथेशभक्तो निजकर्म कुर्या:
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं द्वितीयम!!

कन्या वर से दूसरा वचन मांगती है कि जिस प्रकार आप अपने माता-पिता का सम्मान करते हैं, उसी प्रकार मेरे माता-पिता का भी सम्मान करें तथा कुटुम्ब की मर्यादा के अनुसार धर्मानुष्ठान करते हुए ईश्वर भक्त बने रहें तो मैं आपके वामांग में आना स्वीकार करती हूँ।

7 vows of hindu marriage

The couple prays to god to give them the mental stability, spiritual strength as well as physical health so that could lead a happy life together. They also promise to each other that they are two bodies and soul from this day will always be there for each other in good as well as bad times.

 

In the third Phera

जीवनम अवस्थात्रये पालनां कुर्यात
वामांगंयामितदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं तृतीयं!!

तीसरे वचन में कन्या कहती है कि आप मुझे ये वचन दें कि आप जीवन की तीनों अवस्थाओं (युवावस्था, प्रौढावस्था, वृद्धावस्था) में मेरा पालन करते रहेंगे, तो ही मैं आपके वामांग में आने को तैयार हूँ।

7 vows of hindu marriage

The couple pleads to god for wealth, prosperity as well as wisdom to live happily and peacefully with each other. Also, they ask God to give them enough strength and courage to share all the happiness and pain together.

In the fourth Phera

कुटुम्बसंपालनसर्वकार्य कर्तु प्रतिज्ञां यदि कातं कुर्या:
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं चतुर्थ:।।

कन्या चौथा वचन ये माँगती है कि अब तक आप घर-परिवार की चिन्ता से पूर्णत: मुक्त थे। अब जबकि आप विवाह बंधन में बँधने जा रहे हैं तो भविष्य में परिवार की समस्त आवश्यकताओं की पूर्ति का दायित्व आपके कंधों पर है। यदि आप इस भार को वहन करने की प्रतीज्ञा करें तो ही मैं आपके वामांग में आ सकती हूँ।

7 vows of hindu marriage

The bride walks before the boy and promises him that she will accept the death before him if it comes on his way. Apart from this, the couple also promises to each other to take care of and respect each other’s family as well.

In the fifth Phera

स्वसद्यकार्ये व्यहारकर्मण्ये व्यये मामापि मन्‍त्रयेथा
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रूते वच: पंचमत्र कन्या!!

इस वचन में कन्या जो कहती है वो आज के परिपेक्ष में अत्यंत महत्व रखता है। वो कहती है कि अपने घर के कार्यों में, विवाहादि, लेन-देन अथवा अन्य किसी हेतु खर्च करते समय यदि आप मेरी भी मन्त्रणा लिया करें तो मैं आपके वामांग में आना स्वीकार करती हूँ।

7 vows of hindu marriage

The couple promise to each other to remain with each other all the time irrespective of the situation they face in their life. They promise each other to share joy and grief throughout their relationship as well. Besides this, they also pray to God to bless them with healthy kids and promises to nurture them well with good moral values.

In the sixth Phera

न मेपमानमं सविधे सखीना द्यूतं न वा दुर्व्यसनं भंजश्वेत
वामाम्गमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रवीति कन्या वचनं च षष्ठम!!

कन्या कहती है कि यदि मैं अपनी सखियों अथवा अन्य स्त्रियों के बीच बैठी हूँ तब आप वहाँ सबके सम्मुख किसी भी कारण से मेरा अपमान नहीं करेंगे। यदि आप जुआ अथवा अन्य किसी भी प्रकार के दुर्व्यसन से अपने आप को दूर रखें तो ही मैं आपके वामांग में आना स्वीकार करती हूँ।

7 vows of hindu marriage

The couple asks for a fit and healthy long-life filled with happiness, peace, contentment, and prosperity. They also exchange promises to each other that they will always stand next to them even in bad times.

In the last and final Phera

परस्त्रियं मातूसमां समीक्ष्य स्नेहं सदा चेन्मयि कान्त कूर्या।
वामांगमायामि तदा त्वदीयं ब्रूते वच: सप्तमंत्र कन्या!!

अन्तिम वचन के रूप में कन्या ये वर मांगती है कि आप पराई स्त्रियों को माता के समान समझेंगें और पति-पत्नि के आपसी प्रेम के मध्य अन्य किसी को भागीदार न बनाएंगें। यदि आप यह वचन मुझे दें तो ही मैं आपके वामांग में आना स्वीकार करती हूँ।

Meaning of 7 Vows

The couple prays to God for loyalty, togetherness, better understanding and unconditional love between their relationship. They also promise each other to do every possible thing for each other whenever required to make the holy relationship last long.

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These 5 Best Crockery Brands Are Harnessing The Wealth Of India’s Design Culture

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We all know crockery is the pride for your dining table. This is the first thing on your table which attracts your guests, especially if it’s a nice one. It plays an important part in decorating your dining table. In this article, we have compiled the list of some of the best homegrown indie crockery brands that are using the best and unique design philosophy. Adding crockery like these on your dining table will show your classy style in front of your guest. If you want them,

Then have a look at some of the best ones.

1. Ware Innovations

Ware Innovations Crockery Brand

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You might have come across them if you have ever gone to restaurants like Bay route or Sequel in Mumbai. This brand is the mastermind of Yogita Agarwal who makes use of minimalist and quirky designs. She makes use of geometric shapes and straight lines to design the platters, plates, bowls, and mugs playfully.

Also read: 5 Tips For Settling Into A New Home

2. Terravida

Terravida

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Terravida is a goa-based ceramic and pottery brand which is the fusion of earthy and rustic and the playful and contemporary. The founder of this brand is Aparna Khaunte who works along with 12 artists from Goa who help her design the crockeries. From teapots and tumblers to oil dispensers and spoon holders, she designs everything. The beauty of Goa is truly reflected in her products through her designs.

3. The Creative Platter

The Creative Platter

via: Instagram/ thecreativeplatter

The only design studio that perfectly knows how to balance between functional and sculptural. This is a tableware brand that has made it to some of the top restaurants in India, including Sujan Sarkar’s ROOH in Delhi. The founder& designer of this brand is Amankshi Rawat. She works with clay, stone, metal, and wood and uses traditional techniques like wheel throwing and slab rolling to create quirky crockeries.

Also read: Décor Tips That Will Revive Your Home’s Style

4. Kara Sabi

Kara Sabi Crockery Brand

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This ceramic brand was launched in September 2016 and it is an expression of finding beauty in the imperfection through handcrafted ceramics. It takes inspiration from the Japanese philosophy of ‘Wabi Sabi’ that honours all things old, worn, weathered, imperfect and impermanent.

5. Indus People

Indus People Crockery Brand

via: Instagram/ Induspeople

The brand has been founded by Aditi Chaddha Batra which was possible because of her simplicity and sophistication. You will notice this label across restaurants like CinCin and Provenance in Mumbai and SKAI in Kolkata. As its name tells, this brand draws inspiration from the colours and textures of India, the land of the Indus River. It also takes inspiration from holy Ganga too to design the crockeries.

So, these were some of the best Indie crockery brands that are made using unique designs and you will notice most of them at high-end restaurants or premium locations. So, go and enjoy your meal in these crockeries with your bae.

Also read: 11 of The Must-have Furniture For Your New Home

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5 Popular Cities In India That Are Perfect To Live After Your Retirement

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Getting retired soon? You must be thinking to relocate to some peaceful place right after your retirement to spend the rest of your life in the best possible way you can. At the same time, leaving a big city where you are currently living is also not an easy task, as we have got used to the place, comfort and, of course, the convenience this place has. Many questions must be coming in your mind like whether you should shift to some blissful place like any hill station or any developed city where you can work even after your retirement if you wish to. Here, in this blog,

We have curated a special list mentioning places where you can spend your life after retirement without worrying anything around in a peaceful way.

1. Chandigarh

Chandigarh is a perfect place to live your life happily after your retirement. This place has everything that one seeks after retirement. From well-designed roads, numerous gardens and parks, clean air and excellent health-care facilities. Apart from this, it also has a peace and quite a pleasant climate which makes this place perfect for retirees. You might have heard of Sukhna Lake, it is in Chandigarh only making the city more relaxing and beautiful. Besides the lake, it is also known for its Rock Garden and Zakir Hussain Rose Garden which is the largest of its kind in Asia.

Also read: 10 Best Affordable Cities to Live in India

2. Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu

Coimbatore

When we talk about South India, Ooty and Kerala are often the first places that pop-ups in your mind. No doubt, these places are very beautiful, but Coimbatore is where you can find a home. This city is becoming popular among retirees because of its excellent healthcare facilities and pleasant climate. Not only this but also living here is very cost-friendly. Other attractions include mountains, waterfalls, and temples which you can enjoy in your leisure time.

3. Mysore

Mysore is another popular place in the list of retirees. It is located at the foothills of Chamundi hills and is India’s cleanest city as per the Urban Development Ministry. Why one prefer this place to live after getting retired? This is because of the low cost of living and amicable weather.

Also read: 6 Reasons That are Responsible for Giving Indore The Title of Cleanest City of India

4. Goa

Goa

Surprised to know about this place? Well, you shouldn’t be. This place is like a real retreat for artists and beach lovers. If you want to enjoy your life like there’s no tomorrow, you can choose this place as well as your home after your retirement. Of course, the place is nice because it has a plethora of beautiful beaches, affordable rentals, a serene environment and much more. It also has some of the popular retirement colonies such as Siridao near Bambolim and Nachinola near Mapusa.

5. Dehradun

If you love mountains, the Himalayan foothills are the perfect retirement destination for you. Dehradun is just like a complete package for those who want to spend their life peacefully after retirement between nature and tranquillity. The city is also very near to holy towns like Haridwar and Rishikesh which is preferred by most of the older generations, not only by them in fact, it attracts the young generation too. Weather here is pleasant throughout the year and it also has well-connected roads and rails too for a better commute to nearby places.

What’s your pick among these places when you’ll be retiring?

Also read: 4 Experiences You Probably Won’t Find Anywhere in India Except Goa

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Consolidating And Refinancing: The Art Of Student Loan Management

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Consolidating And Refinancing

Difference between Consolidation and Refinancing

Consolidation

This involves combining multiple loans into a single loan, thereby you would only have to manage one loan instead of dealing with several separate loans, monthly payments, and billing statements. Consolidation is possible only if your student loans were procured from government programs. The major benefits associated with consolidation are specifically reserved for government loans.

Debt consolidation programs can be perplexing. The general idea is that the agency will negotiate with creditors to make payments more affordable. You will make only one payment, and that payment goes to the agency, which then pays off your multiple loans for you.

Refinancing

Refinancing involves replacing a loan with a completely new loan, typically with much better terms. The goal is to get a lower interest rate in order to reduce your long term interest costs and monthly payments. Instead of the term refinancing, think of this as “optimizing” your debt so you pay less.

Consolidating Federal Student Loans

Consolidating Federal Student Loans

When you’re consolidating your federal student loans, the government will merge all your debts into a single new loan known as a Direct Consolidation Loan. You can apply for this once you graduate.

Most federal student loans are acceptable for consolidation, including subsidized and unsubsidized Direct loans, subsidized and unsubsidized federal Stafford loans, Direct PLUS loans and many more.

Pros of Consolidating

  •  Direct Consolidation loans offer one single payment and lower monthly payments.
  •  Consolidating federal loans is free, so watch out for companies that offer to consolidate federal student loans for a fee.
  •  No credit check is needed to consolidate federal student loans and can be done online.

You should also consider other ways of tracking your debt and managing payments. This is because Direct Consolidation Loans have drawbacks as well.

Cons of Consolidating

  • A reduced monthly payment means paying the loan for an elongated period of time, which will cost you more money in the long run due to interest.
  • When you consolidate your federal student loans, you lose the ability to target your highest interest or highest balance loans using methods called the debt avalanche or debt snowball.
  • Certain federal consolidation loans might come with higher interest rates than private loans. For instance, the average interest rate for Direct-unsubsidized loans for graduate or professional students is 6.6%, while some student loan refinancing lenders offer below 3%. This difference adds up over time.

You can calculate the figures and percentages using a student loan consolidation calculator, making it easier for you to determine which loans to take.

Be sure to assess all your options, from Direct Consolidation loans to other strategies such as refinancing.

Here’s A list of the Best Student Loan Consolidation Lenders:

  • LendKey – Best for Undergraduate Loans
  • SoFi – Best for High-Income Borrowers
  • Education Loan Finance – Best for Low-Interest Rates
  • CommonBond – Best for Unemployment Protection
  • Citizens Bank – Best from a Traditional Bank
  • PenFed Credit Union – Best from a Credit Union
  • Earnest – Best for Low Credit Borrowers
  • Laurel Road – Best for Medical Residents

Refinancing Private Student Loans

Refinancing Private Student Loans

Refinancing private student loans involves taking up a new loan to pay the remaining cost of your previously procured private student loan. Refinancing is done in order to avail of a lower interest rate on your new loan resulting in money saved.

Your financial history, which includes your credit rating, amount of income, job history and education will determine your revised interest rate when you refinance your student loans.

You would ideally need a moderate-to-high credit rating to be eligible, and interest rates vary from 2% to 9%.

You should consider refinancing if you have:

  • Good credit reports where you have shown prompt student loan payments after leaving your school or college.
  • Good or excellent credit scores.
  • Proof of stable employment history and good income amounts.
  • Been affiliated to a guarantor or a co-signer with good credit history.

Consumer policies and benefits offered in federal loans do not apply to refinanced student loans. These include the option to link payments to income and other opportunities pertaining to loan forgiveness.

You can use a student loan refinance calculator to compare monthly payments between private student loan refinancing agencies and find the plan that best works for you.

Pros of Refinancing Private Student Loans

  • You can create an easy-to-manage financial situation, get better terms and secure lower monthly payment.
  • A major benefit of refinancing private student loans is the potential to secure a much lower interest rate. The rate will be based on your credit score.
  • If you possess a good credit score, or if your income and employment history is considerable, you are likely to receive a low rate, making refinancing a good option.

Cons of Refinancing Private Student Loans

  • A point to note when opting for refinancing is if you are extending the repayment term, you will have incurred more payments due to the interest applied over a period of time.
  • A federal Direct Consolidation Loan is free of charge, whereas some private lenders will charge an initial, or processing fee. It’s best to avoid those lenders who charge this fee.
  • A credit check is needed to consolidate private student loans through refinancing. If your credit history is poor, you may have trouble being eligible.

Here’s a list of the Top Refinance Lenders in the United States:

Consolidating or refinancing student loans might seem like a good choice, but there are several aspects to consider before determining if it’s the right choice for you. Be sure to ask a ton of questions and evaluate all pros and cons so you can pay off your loans as quickly as possible while saving your money.

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