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The Lies We All Tell in a Relationship

Date, especially first dates, is all about looking at your best. For the ladies, the hours in the bathroom and in front of the mirror, choosing just the right outfit and padding for the bra. For the guys, actually doing laundry and making sure your lucky underpants are clean and ready to rock. But that is just the physical. Far more important for both sexes is making their personality seem attractive. Since many people out there have all the charm, poise and excitement of a snail, that means one thing and one thing only.

Lying

We all do it. Exaggeration of ourselves for effect (Yes, he really does work for a big Wall Street trader. He’s the janitor.), omission of inconvenient facts (Oh, yeah, I am married. Should have mentioned that), or outright bullsh*t (I’m a virgin.) are all part of the arsenal. Like the rule that 90% of the statistics on the internet are made up, a good 40% of what your first date says can be discounted.

You gals know it. We know you do it too, and, in the main, both sexes are totally cool with it. It is the way the game has always been played, we know it and accept it. Even before the first date though, the lying comes into play. How else are you going to stand out from the crowd to grab her (or his) interest?

You examine yourself and come up as distinctly, boringly average at best, merely boring at worst. So you big yourself up slightly in conversation. Nothing major, you just make yourself a more interesting person to talk to and be with.

That gets extended to the online world. Maybe a few white lies on your date site profile will increase your chances. Knock a couple of years off, perhaps? Add a couple of years to give you more gravitas? Make yourself more interesting by putting in some obscure references to classical literature that you haven’t actually read? It can’t hurt, right?

That knock on the door you just heard is the Department of Justice and they want a word with you right now. Don’t argue, don’t run, just get in the van or get tased.

Apparently, lying on a dating site, or on your Facebook profile, or on Instagram if you are stuck in the past, is totally illegal and the violation of the Terms of Service can be prosecuted by bored attorneys who have obviously dealt with all other crime, everywhere and forever.

Seriously, dudes, I got coke dealers around here (crack isn’t all that popular for some reason) that actually have posted office hours, and you lot are worried about a white lie or two on a dating profile? I know it is far easier and more lucrative to punish the law-abiding than to make the effort to catch the criminal, but [CENSORED] your [CENSORED] [CENSORED] [CENSORED] asses.

By the terms of the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act (CFAA), which they are currently considering extending the scope of, my very existence online as a thing of ghosts and shadows is threatened, as a person who has never put his true name to anything published online ever. So is yours.

Siddharth Kashyap loves crafting content and sharing information about technology and business. Since the world mainly revolves around, business growth, and technological advancements, you can always find her delved into the digital world.

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11 Fullproof Ways of Finding Casual Sex on Ashley Madison

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Finding Casual Sex on Ashley Madison

Casual Sex, popularly also known as “one-night stand”, “hook-ups” or  “No-strings-attached” relationship is certainly a once in a lifetime kind of experience to a lot of us and almost 1/4th of life to some of us! We all wonder whether walking into the bar, spotting a hot mess & bang, is that easy for being laid? Are there any sure-shot formulae that can promise you 101% casual sex the night you decide to get laid?

Well, calling them formulae would be incorrect. Casual sex is quite different from dating or seeking an affair, therefore, there is no formula involved. But there are pointers to remember that can get you closer to having the evening exactly how you desire.

Here we are about to brief you, hold on to those hormones since we are going to share some cool tips on getting you laid.

1. Have some clarity on casual sex

Have some clarity on casual sex

While the ‘getting laid’ part seems to be thrilling and super fun, you must understand what exactly you are getting yourself into. Clarity on casual sex and setting up healthy boundaries will save you from the horror of last-minute regrets.

2. Get an identity

Be someone and better be ‘you’. Women are usually attracted to men with qualities such as fun, intelligent, smart, stylish, or charming! Make sure your impression is built in the first 20 seconds. When it comes to casual sex, you don’t get a second chance, lad.

3. Be open to alternatives

Not every site may suit or match your requirements. After a while, you will get an idea of whether a particular website offers what you need or not. In case, if it doesn’t, then stop wasting your time there and start exploring other alternatives. Perhaps, you might just find the right match while exploring alternate options!

4. Be online

Be online

There are tons of applications made keeping this requirement of casual sex in mind. Be present online and make a killer profile. Along with dating applications, there are websites too that will help you in finding a hookup partner. All you need to do is get started. Here is a little more help for you peeps! Visit https://www.huffingtonpost.in/2017/07/20/6-things-to-do-before-hooking-up-with-someone-new-from-tinder_a_23039182/ to get more tips.

5. Dating

Dating

Yes, of course, we said that casual sex is no strings attached, but hanging out a little is important to get in tune with the person. You can pick fun places for dates & spend some time in knowing each other’s fantasy. This rapport is pivotal for any kind of relationship, even if it’s for the love of casual sex.

6. Get chatting

Keep that going even if multiple women are closing the door. You may miss it at the very first throw, but there are plenty of women on earth so don’t stop trying. Keep texting to a variety of women and be as interesting as you can be.

7. Clear intentions

Keep it clear and don’t give her mixed signals! It’s important to be clear about your feelings not only to your partner but also to yourself. Make it clear that you are here for just casual sex and not serious relationships.

At times, this very clarity becomes a point of attraction for ladies. Casual sex is a risky affair, the chances of developing feelings are way too high!

8. Respect the consent

Respect the consent

When it comes to casual sex, getting your fling’s consent is a very serious concept. So, be a gentleman and learn to accept a “NO” for your proposal. Being forceful will only earn you the title of a creep or pervert. So if she says “NO”, respect it and move on. Likewise, ladies, if a man says “NO” to you, accept it and move ahead. Read this post to know more about why ‘consent’ matters.

9. Be confident

When it comes to casual sex, be confident. Opposite genders are attracted to positive and confident individuals. So, if you come across profiles who are way out of your league, step up and approach them. You might just get lucky!

10. Get creative

Get creative

Everyone loves a little twist of creativity. So why hold yourself back for the fear of judgment? Use those cheesy lines to break the ice or play guitar! After all, you are here to have some fun.

11. Practice safe sex

Casual hookups are synonymous with bedroom experiments. But, why risk your health for it, mate? Whenever you get lucky, ensure that you carry the protection and practice safe sex. Perhaps, prevention is always better than cure.

Well, these tips are sure to up your game in bed! But, we also want to make sure that you take precautions to avoid unfortunate incidents. So, have a look!

  • Check Credibility: As you set out to explore, don’t get yourself into troubled waters. Beware of fake dating websites and apps that might just try to lure you with great offers and discounts.
  • Mark your radius: If casual sex is your dirty little secret, then ensure that you mark your radius away from the place you reside in. Or else, be ready to be the latest gossip of your neighborhood.
  • Stop when you want: You are never going to be under any obligation to say ‘yes’. In case, if you feel things are not working out, then politely communicate it out with your partner and walk out. There’s no point in dragging things that you are not interested in.

Apart from these tips and precautions, if you have got any more interesting advice to get laid, then feel free to share it with us.

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9 Sweet And Spicy Ways To Wake Up Your Guy In The Morning

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Wake Up Your Guy

Waking up next to your loved ones is a feeling that can’t be expressed in words. You can just feel that. Even if you hate to wake up in the morning, you will just love doing this beautiful thing with your guy. It will make the day of your loved one a memorable one. Yes, believe me. If you already know the tricks to do that, then it’s great. If you don’t know then you can just read through what is presented here and get to know how you can spice up your guy’s morning while waking him up.

1. Cuddle and stroke his chest

Cuddle and stroke his chest

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While sleeping, couples tend to move away from each other. What you have to do in the morning is to snuggle him when you wake up and lightly run your fingers all over his chest.

2. Kiss his neck

Kiss his neck

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We all know the neck is one of the sensitive areas in our body and that’s true for everyone. Use that to your benefit, girl. Try to wake him up with gentle but quick kisses to his neck. See the priceless smile on his face after this.

3. Climb on top of him

Just forget about doing foreplay, if that’s what you are in the mood for. Just climb on top of him and start kissing him all over. He will take lead from there and thank you for it later. You know what I mean *wink*.

Also read: 10 Naughtiest Questions to Ask Your Guy That will Make Turn Him on Instantly

4. Wiggle your behind

How about wiggling? You just have to gently wiggle your behind into him. That will wake him up right away without doing many efforts. Your bottom will surely turn the heat up too!

5. Text him a sweet message

Text him a sweet message

You can also text him something sweet, cute or naughty in the morning to let him know how much you love and appreciate him. He will wake up with a smile on his face.

6. Play his favourite song

Call him in the morning, if you are away from him, what you can do is play his favourite song. I bet after hearing this, he will be falling in more and more love with you.

Also read: 4 of The Kinky Sexual Fantasies That Will Add Some Spice in Your Sex Life

7. Play the ear game

Play the ear game

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Scoot over close to him and whisper slowly ‘I Love You’ in his ear and then gently nibble his ear. This will put a smile on his face and then he will work extra hard to put a smile on your face.

8. Shower together

How about taking the naughty shower together? Doing this thing will spice his day for sure. After this, he will surely end up smiling while working all day long.

9. Tickle him

Men are also ticklish as women are. In fact, they sometimes actually like being tickled too when done in a funny way. So, what are you waiting for? Gently tickle him and make his morning a happy and beautiful one.

Also read: 6 Ways To Know That She Is The Right One To Marry

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Love Life of America’s Got Talent’s Host Terry Crews and Rebecca

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Not every relationship is easy or works as expected to be. No example would be better than this. Yes, we are talking about America’s Got Talent: The Champions host Terry Crews and his wife Rebecca King-Crews. They are now married for 29 years. The duo has faced challenging times since then. But despite the odds and facing all the hardship, they worked through it all.

It wasn’t loved at first sight for them

During the 80s, Rebecca was voted Miss Gary, Indiana and then she went to Western Michigan University to pursue her career ahead. On the other hand, Terry was busy playing football at the same school. It is believed that the duo has met during this time. As per Rebecca, she didn’t fell in love at first sight with him. Rebecca said, “He almost got stuck in the friend zone. He was a little too nice.”

After some time they got together and in 1990 they got married. They have also welcomed their daughter in the same year. Now they have five children as of now.

Though Terry has got huge success in the Hollywood industry, still he faced a lot in his relationship

No doubt, the duo always keeps smiling at the red carpet whenever you see them, but Terry isn’t happy with his relationship. After going away from football, he fell into a deep depression which landed him to addiction and pornography which has cost him his marriage. After two years on Facebook, he revealed how he got addicted to all this and never told his wife.

“My wife was literally like, ‘I don’t know you anymore, I’m out of here,’” he said. “That changed me. I had to change because I realized this thing is a major, major problem.”

He also took many therapies for his addiction and as a result of his desire to change, Rebecca came back to him. On the show, Rebecca said it took her about 3 years to trust him again. “When someone knows you from good to the most rotten, dirtiest part of you, and loves you anyway, that’s the rarity, that’s where you want to be,” Terry remarked on the program in March 2018.

They are now a happy couple again

After facing so many struggles, the duo is now happy and together. No matter where their lives go next, Rebecca and Terry seem to have each other’s backs as evidenced by their heartfelt Instagram about one another.

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