Elon Musk’s first wife, Justine Musk, penned an essay in 2010 that has resurfaced amid the recent release of Musk’s biography. In the Marie Claire piece, Justine delves into the complexities of their marriage and its eventual unraveling during their divorce in 2008. Highlighting warning signs from the beginning, Justine recalls Elon declaring himself the “alpha” at their wedding reception, indicative of the power dynamics that would unfold. Elon’s upbringing in the male-dominated culture of South Africa contributed to a pervasive need to compete and dominate, a trait that persisted even within their home. Justine faced a constant struggle as Elon asserted his judgment over hers, citing their economic imbalance.
The essay details Elon’s frequent criticism and comparisons, asserting his views on her perceived shortcomings. The power dynamic reached a point where Justine expressed her role as his wife, not an employee. Elon’s response, indicating he would fire her if she were an employee, underlined the strain in their relationship.
Additionally, Justine revealed Elon’s pressure for her to color her hair even blonder. The loss of their first son, Nevada, to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), plunged her into a prolonged period of depression. The strain increased as she gave birth to twins and triplets.
Elon Musk and Justine divorced in September 2008. Elon offered her a settlement equivalent to an $80 million pre-tax income, which she declined. He currently covers all expenses for their children and provides $20,000 per month (after taxes). Justine retained the family home in Bel Air.
This glimpse into the Musk marriage offers a narrative of power dynamics, external pressures, and personal tragedy that contributed to the dissolution of their union.
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