“I have enough jewelry,” said no woman ever. For when it comes to pretty little trinkets, the more, the merrier. Chunky chandelier earrings, sleek chokes, pearl jewel necklaces, and delicate zirconia necklaces glamorize our day-to-day outfits. We know how much women adore jewelry, and that diamonds are a girl’s best friend.
Come to think of it, there’s some truth behind these myths, for beauty is the prerogative of women. And if you want to sweep your partner off her feet, look no further than an exquisitely crafted necklace. Before you widen your pocket to buy a diamond for her, dig deeper into your partner’s preferences for stones and design aesthetics.
Keep reading to pick up some valuable tips on choosing the perfect necklace for your lady love.
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Dig Deep into your Partner’s Preferences
Do you want to buy your girl a necklace she will meekly accept and toss into the black hole of her jewelry cabinet? Or do you want to gift her a necklace that will leave her overjoyed – something she never wants to take off?
The art of gifting lies in understanding the recipient’s unique tastes and aesthetic preferences, especially if the recipient is your partner. What kind of necklaces does your partner usually wear? It’s common for men to focus on the bigger picture and disregard the tiny details like accessories. Take a trip to her jewelry cabinet and examine its contents.
Does she have a lot of pearls and long, navel-grazing necklaces? Or is her jewelry box brimming with lace chokers and gemstone necklaces?
Suppose your girlfriend enjoys wearing bold and glittery chokers to accentuate and show off her slender neck. In that case, consider surprising her with a charming set of fancy choker necklaces that align with her tastes. It’s wiser to examine her wardrobe and outfits first and then buy chokers that would complement or contrast them. You need to get to know her preferences for glitter, pearls, gemstones, pendants or other aesthetic details.
Are you comfortable striking up a conversation to learn about your partner’s preferences? While that may give away your intentions and build her expectations, it will help you find the perfect necklace for her. You can always center the conversations around birthstones and get her input on her preferred stones, materials and designs. If that feels overwhelming, consider enlisting the help of her sister or BFFs.
Dimensions Matter
Even if you understand your partner’s taste impeccably well, you cannot buy the perfect necklace without understanding the dimensions. Not all beautiful necklaces are treated equally, for each body type demands a different trinket.
For instance, a 16-inch necklace would ideally fall around the neck and collarbone of a petite woman. However, the same necklace would sit tightly like a choker for a plus-size woman. So, considering the dimensions is of the utmost significance, especially if you’re shopping online.
Suppose you’re looking for a long necklace with a bulky pendant that falls above the bust. In that case, we suggest looking for a 22-inch necklace. But if you want an elegant necklace studded with cubic zirconia for a black tie event, an 18-inch chain is more suitable.
Pay Attention to her Body Shape
It’s wise to pay attention to body types, for necklaces serve as distractions, drawing attention towards our best assets. After all, you don’t want your partner to feel compelled to wear a trinket that doesn’t flatter her form. For instance, a petite woman with a smaller bust would prefer necklaces with multiple layers or a long navel-grazing chain. The length of the necklace will accentuate her petite waist and sleek frame.
In contrast, a full-figured or plus-sized goddess wouldn’t want a long necklace dangling awkwardly below her bust line. Instead, she would prefer a choker or a necklace that rests beautifully atop her collarbone. Women with curvy hourglass figures adorn themselves with flaunting body chains and layered necklaces. Then, you also need to consider her overall form and body structure.
For instance, women with broad shoulders or wide necks typically steer clear of chokers and short necklaces.
Consider Enlisting her Help
Is your partner overly choosy about her styling preferences and accessories? Most women are, for style is a very intimate and personal element, deeply ingrained within their femininity. Enlisting her help is a viable solution, especially if you’re convinced she won’t like whatever you pick.
Here’s the plan: consider enlisting her help under the guise of shopping for your mother, sibling or cousin. Rope her in and let her take over the buying experience, adding necklaces she likes to the shopping cart. When the gift finally arrives, your girlfriend will likely feel more grateful to you for letting her choose, albeit as part of a ruse.
Final Thoughts
If you want to surprise your partner with a heartful and genuinely special gesture, you need to dig deep into her preferences and style. Observe her personal sense of style and pay attention to her form. What kind of necklaces would align with her dressing sense, wardrobe and body shape? For instance, women who prefer conservative, business formal dressing prefer delicate necklaces, pearls and shorter lengths. In contrast, women who like to flaunt bold and glamorous outfits prefer sparkly, over-the-top necklaces to elevate their glamour.
